I understand how you feel.
I'm 70 years old. From 2010 to 2022 I saw 15 "pros" and "swing coaches". Golftec twice. LOTS of range time.
My goal was to be a consistent ball striker.
Shanks, and OB off the tee one round, fairways and greens the next. The local lessons were little help, more frustration.
The best recommendation I can give is to see Monte Scheinblum.
You could certainly take a break from golf, but you also have the
option of pursuing the best you can be. It worked for me, he may work for you too. I'm this guy...